As a therapist providing marriage counseling in California, I work with couples to create a secure bond and connection with each other. However, sometimes the challenge is being open to beginning a relationship. Past hurts and underlying fears can create blocks to dating and allowing a new partner to enter your life. This often leads to self-doubt and fear that you will be single forever. In this article I discuss the saboteur that may be lurking under the surface, trying to protect you from getting hurt but also preventing the connection you desire.

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Author: Stephanie Saari

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California. I love working with couples and individuals to find strength, growth and empowerment through their struggles and challenges.